Nathaniel Branden's Self-Esteem Every Day - 2006


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November 30 – Self-Esteem Every Day

Romantic love is not a distraction from spiritual growth but one of the paths by which it may be attained. It tests spiritual maturity in unique ways. It presents unique challenges to your honesty and authenticity. It can be easier to assume the role of guru and address thousands of people from the safety of a lecture platform than to encounter in your living room one human being who might love and respect you but faces you as an equal and is not afraid to challenge your judgment, question some of your actions, pull you back when you have gone too far, and, when necessary, to tell you to "come off it."
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December 1 – Self-Esteem Every Day

The more rapid the rate of change, the more dangerous it is to live mechanically, relying on routines of belief and behavior that might be irrelevant or obsolete.
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December 2 – Self-Esteem Every Day

Everyone operates more consciously in some areas than in others. People might bring great consciousness to their work and very little to personal relationships—or vise versa. They might think far more clearly about their careers than about their political beliefs—or vice versa. They might maintain a sharp mental focus in matters pertaining to their health but a more diffuse focus in matters pertaining to ethics or religion—or vice versa. To say that a person is not living at an adequate level of consciousness is to say that there are aspects of his or her life where the range of action exceeds the range of thought.
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December 3 – Self-Esteem Every Day

Sometimes there is no choice but to act instantly with no time for reflection. It is an act of consciousness to recognize such moments and take your chances—and know that you will live (or possibly die) with the consequences of your action.
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December 4 – Self-Esteem Every Day

Whether your focus is on preserving and strengthening family ties in a world of increasingly unstable relationships, gaining access to a decent job, growing and evolving as a person, or guiding a company through the stormy seas of a fiecely competitive global marketplace—whether your goals are material, emotional, or spiritual—the price of success is the same: thinking, learning. To be asleep at the wheel—to rely only on the known, familiar and automotized—is to invite disaster.
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December 7 – Self-Esteem Every Day

Living consciously reflects the conviction that sight is preferable to blindness; that respecting the facts of reality is more satisfying than defying them; that evasion does not make the unreal real or the real unreal; that it is better to correct your mistakes than to pretend they do not exist; and that the more conscious you are of facts bearing on your life and goals, the more wisely and effectively you can act.
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December 10 – Self-Esteem Every Day

No other gift to a young person can equal that of teaching the intimate relationship that exists between rationality and self-esteem—between consciousness and efficacy.
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December 11 – Self-Esteem Every Day

Whether in the workplace or in personal relationships, success belongs to those who are willing to take responsibility for attaining their desires—those who respond to life actively rather than passively.
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December 14 – Self-Esteem Every Day

If you bring five percent more awareness to your work tomorrow, or to your most important relationship, what might you do differently? Are you willing to find out?
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December 15 – Self-Esteem Every Day

If you give five percent more respect to your deepest needs and wants, what might you do differently? Are you willing to try it and see what you might discover?
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December 17 – Self-Esteem Every Day

It is cruel and misleading to tell people that all they need to do to have self-esteem is to decide to love themselves. Self-esteem is built by practices, not by emotions.
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December 18 – Self-Esteem Every Day

When they lack self-esteem, people often try to create pseudo self-esteem—a pretense at self-confidence and self-respect that they do not actually feel. The act is chiefly for oneself.
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