You are being more literal minded than the material requires. Any "observation" is an interaction of one physical system with another. Consciousness is not involved. If one places a dumb non-sentient electron counter at one slit of a double slit rig, it presence destroys the interference effect. It does not matter if the device is being monitored by a conscious party or not. If all that runs counter to our intuitions and "common sense" then so much the worse for our intuitions and common sense. If nature could care it would not give a damn about what we are comfortable with. Ba'al Chatzaf That material you refer to is part of a video entitled "What the bleep do we know?". The video is well intentioned, because it is trying to wake people up & get them to take some personal responsibility for their own mental health. That is super, but it is also telling them that by mere thought alone, we have the power to alter reality. For instance, that by feeling a negative or a positive way towards water, you will affect the structure of the water. Furthermore, the water that you felt negatively towards will resemble polluted water. Need I go on? It would be interesting if it were true, but I don't think it is. I think, as you say, nature couldn't care less what I was comfortable with. Reality is objective, not subjective. I agree that "particle" and "wave" are concepts, but so what? I understand "wave" to describe the movement of particles. I am okay with light being a mysterious phenomenon that I don't understand. I don't understand it. But if you say it exhibits the properties of a wave, then I'm going to ask, "What is waving?" How can you have a wave without a medium? The lecturer in the Double Slit Experiment spends his first, say 15 minutes, talking about how by the concept of "wave", we understand particles moving up & down, back & forth, transferring their motion to the particles nearby. But then for the rest of the video, he is talking about waves as if they could somehow exist independently from particles. Conceptually, that makes no sense. Light is a mystery to me, I don't pretend to understand it. But the question, "particle or wave?" doesn't make sense. It is an erroneous simplification of the problem.